Urk where’s my right hand
I am once again, missing my other half. Tat’s currently traipsing all over Sydney and will only be back on Tuesday :(
I do miss Tat terribly- but to be honest, his current Sydney trip is proving to be quite a convenient time out as we’ve been bickering a little too often since his arrival at Melbourne. Maybe me being Tat-free and him being Jam-free for a bit will not be such a bad thing after all :/
So after a long day of rumination, I realised that I’ve been taking Tat for granted.
I do admit that I’ve only been focusing on the negatives, overlooking the positives… such as getting overtly upset whenever Tat yells at me, and ignoring the fact that he raised his voice at me only because I was stubborn and refused to wait for the green light (jaywalking is bad, I KNOW). I’ve been glossing over the little lovely things he constantly showers me with, i.e. letting me have my long showers even though he knows I’ll damn well run out the hot water; giving me his share of the comforter whenever I complain of cold feet; getting me the 10×2hrs Metcard ’cause he knows I’m far too stingy to get it…
Sometimes it’s better to just focus on the positives and mildly thrash out the negatives before trashing it out :)
Disclaimer: But DO bear in mind that it’s a completely different situation if the negative aspects are unforgivably out of line, such as if he’s cheating/beating/mistreating you… or if getting into your pants is all he’s after.
That being said, it takes two to fight hmph. So Tuan Li Tat, I’m sorry that I’ve been really, reaaally pushing it, but a little (more) patience will be much appreciated, heheh.
Oh well, here’s to another lonely night…
June 28th, 2008 at 11:52 pm
awww i guess things have worked out! =)))
June 29th, 2008 at 6:02 am
and look how you’ve changed jammie im proud of u :)))
June 29th, 2008 at 7:53 am
but for latat since now u’re away.. he’s right hand’s become his best fren GEDDIT wtf HAHAHAHA
hows my jammie x(
June 29th, 2008 at 12:47 pm
Tze: Yes they have since our talk thanks luv *beams :)
Aud: Thank you so much sayang *shiny eyes :)
Eeflin: HAHAHAHHAHAHHA how you know even when I’m not away his right hand’s not still his best friend *shifty eyes* Your Jammie’s okay waiting for her Eeflin to come out and play wtf
June 29th, 2008 at 5:58 pm
WTF EEFLIN WTF HAHAHA I DUNWANNA IMAGINE WTF anyway aww..
June 30th, 2008 at 9:40 am
Awww hon, all couples have to have their little spates - I am a firm believer in that.
I mean you if you were in perfect agreeance about everything, life would be pretty….dull I suppose? Not enough spark to keep things alive hehe, or so the theory goes.
I have to say though, your p.s. is a perfectly valid point - no beating/ cheating/ mistreating or er, lechery thank you wtf.
It’s so sweet how you miss him though, and I went all gooey inside when you were talking about all the little things he did for you *melt* =)
So don’t worry hon, he’ll beck before you know it (with a little more patience wtf wtf) and JamTat will be reunited once again! *hugs*
July 1st, 2008 at 10:08 pm
omg, eeflin youre such a boy wtf
thank you bb im touched :)
LOVE YOU MWAH